Setting Up a Meeting For Drinks and How to Get Her to a Hotel Room Without Hassle
Your goal should be to get laid on a first “date”. In order for that to happen, the evening must go smoothly and you better have a place to hookup prepared. Since you’re the guy, it’s all on you to make the night go well. She’s going to expect you to have everything planned out.
Everything starts with asking her out. You can do that either with a phone call (best option because it’s more personal and harder for her to reject your offer) or text/IM. Asking her out is easy to do. There’s nothing to it. “Would you like to meet up for drinks on Friday at Aces Pub?” is all you have to do. It’s a simple yes/no question. She can either accept or reject you. But you had better give a specific date and location when asking.
Now onto deciding where you should go…
From our experience, there isn’t a better first date option than a quiet lounge. It’s best to go after dinner (you don’t want to pay for dinner for a booty call, do you?), but before the major bar rush hits. Once the bar rush hits, the bar might become too loud to hear each other talk. Of course, this all depends on what night you go and where you live.
Planning ahead where to have sex…
Since getting laid is the goal and you’re married, you shouldn’t attempt to bring her back to your place or go back to hers. That means you’re going to have to find somewhere else. Don’t just wing it. Don’t wait until the last minute because you might end up pissing her off. Again, she expects you to have the evening planned out. If you want it to go smoothly, you better pre-plan.
The best option is a hotel. Of course, that costs money and since you’re the guy you’ll have to front the bill. If you can’t afford to take her to a hotel, here are some alternatives…
- Backseat of a car (depends how trashy she is).
- A friend’s house (depends how much you trust your friend).
- Your house or hers (if the spouses are out of town).
None of those options are great in most cases. But it all depends on the girl. If she’s the type that’s totally down for getting it on in the backseat of a car, she’s a keeper! But they won’t all be down for that. If you have a friend you trust that you can tell about your affair without him/her ratting you out, see if they’ll let you come over to his/her place to hookup with your affair partner from a cheating dating website. Can’t hurt to ask, right?