Infidelity is the leading cause of marriage breakup. Even after many fruitful years of living together, some men will still cheat on their wives. Discontentment and boredom set in and they look for exciting escapades in the arms of another woman. Some try as much as possible to keep their illicit affairs in the closet, but others come out in the open and call off their marriage in favor of the other woman. They are simply swept away by the whirlwind romance and passionate sex offered by their mistresses.
But fate, probably listening to the outcries and silent prayers of hurting wives, sometimes puts an end to illicit affairs. For one reason or another, men get dumped by their mistresses. They are left devastated and a hundredfold more hopeless than they originally were.
The following are key signs that a man will soon get dumped by his mistress
The burning passion blew over
One of the early signs of possibly losing your mistress is dwindling interest in sex. You will notice that her appetite for sex is not as intense as it used to be; the blazing Sexcapades are reduced to 5-minute mechanical quickies in the shower. She even comes up with a host of excuses to avoid sleeping in bed with you and feels irritated when you push the subject of sex.
She becomes less demanding of your time and energy
Mistresses are often possessive of their men. They even get jealous when their men fulfil their obligations as husbands to their aching wives. Most of the time, they act as if they are the aggrieved party. It should be very alarming for a man when his mistress stops making fuss about his coming home to his wife. For a woman to dismiss and shrug it off is a sign that the passion is beginning to wane.
She shows sudden pangs of conscience
Another surefire sign that your mistress is losing interest in the affair is when she suddenly brings up your obligations and responsibilities to your poor wife and kids. She suggests out of the blue that you visit your wife and spend time with your kids. Coming from her, this should be surprising to you. Do not buy her guilt as an excuse; it could just be an alibi for her to push you away.
She skipped a rendezvous
It should totally flip you out when your mistress suddenly calls off a date for some hazy reason. Skipping a date should tell you that she might be growing weary of the whole affair. She won’t tell you upfront but her actions should speak to your good sense. Remember how passionate you were in the beginning: how she never missed an appointment and even how she insisted that you make time for her. Calling off a date is not being her usual self so be wary.
She began seeing another dude
Rumors reach you that your mistress is seeing another guy. You confront her but she denies it. She’s probably scared to admit it or to call quits her relationship with you but you must not be too dull not to pick up the telltale signs: she misses your phone calls; she stops informing you of her whereabouts; she tells you she’s been hanging out with her girl friends again.
You must realize that your mistress is capable of easily dumping you. You cannot blame her if she does. She knows very well that you are just playing around and you won’t take her seriously. She has long admitted the fact that the time might come that you would go home to your wife for good. Women will be women, and mistresses are not an exception. They still dream of being prioritized by a guy and not treated as a pastime. Your mistress probably met a bachelor who is willing to love her and treat her with respect.
What to do? Well, let’s face the truth. It is very hard for a man to hold down a discontented mistress. There is not much to expect from the relationship wasn’t established on solid footing; in the first place, there was no serious commitment at the very beginning. Well, it simply goes to show that what goes around comes around. Maybe it’s the karmic law getting back at you for cheating on your unwavering wife.
The best thing to do is to wait and see what comes of the whole situation. Do not stress yourself out chasing after your mistress. You know you don’t own her and you cannot tie her down with your hollow promises. She is much more intelligent than you think and she knows that she can be dumped just as easily as you did your wife.