According to one school of thought, men are polygamous creatures. No matter how long their marriages have been or how perfect their wives have been, they will most of the time get involved in extra-marital relationships. For many men, it is just so difficult to fight their carnal urges, especially when the circumstances make it so easy to cheat on a loyal wife. Long-distance relationships, hectic schedules, peer pressure, and the prevailing macho culture are contributory factors to men cheating on their devoted wives. It does not necessarily mean there is something wrong with their wives or that they have fallen out of love. For many, it’s a simple case of male hormones raging.
Despite the instinctive nature of cheating, it is perceived as a crime and as such it is condoned by many. Men are expected to keep the sanctity of their marriage vows by never looking at another woman. Yet all wives aren’t perfect and neither are all men. Sometimes philandering husbands are just a simple case of acting on something that is missing in a wife, satisfying an unmet need, and nothing more. It is not actually sleeping with another woman that ends marriage; it is basically how the wives react and how the situation is handled. Many cheating husbands claim that they never actually intended to leave their wives for another woman.
The best way for a man to prevent the situation from escalating out of control is to commit the so-called crime out of sight. Here are some tips on how to choose the perfect hotel for cheating post-date sexual activities.
Proximity is a major criterion
The obvious fact: many men get caught red-handed because they are just too dumb to go to a nearby motel. Remember that the farther away you are from home, the smaller the chance people might recognize you and therefore, the greater the possibility of you getting away with your petty carnal exploits. If possible, plan an out-of-town trip where no one practically knows you and your date. You’ll have the chance to enjoy each other more because you are able to dispel the thought of your wife suddenly coming out of a corner and pouncing on you. Being less jumpy and anxious allows you to enjoy sex even more.
Here’s a word of caution, when you go on a long trip with your girl to some far-off place for sex, don’t hurry on coming home; otherwise, your wife might suspect something fishy going on and your future plans might fall through. Also, do not do the obvious like turning off your cell phone or not leaving a word at the office. These are very alarming to an otherwise unknowing wife.
Avoid familiar destinations
If you are planning on going out on a date with a woman who isn’t your wife, go to a place you have never been to. Do not choose a hotel that you and your wife frequent because you don’t want people to recognize you. Remember that the people who testify in a heinous crime are always the people you would least expect. In the same way, a bellboy, a concerned receptionist, or a simple bystander outside a hotel can just as easily tip you off to your wife. Always expect the unexpected.
Furthermore, going to an unfamiliar spot will make the consequences of your crime less heavy. Imagine your wife discovering that you brought your date to the exact place you once dated her and to the same hotel at which you spent your first night. She would definitely be fuming mad! Imagine how painful that must be and how much guilt you will later have to deal with. This is the same shocking reason why most men will kill their wives whom they caught cheating with a stranger in their marriage bed!
Do away with all evidence of the crime
When looking for a hotel, make sure that you obliterate all possible means you can be tracked by your wife. Do not write down addresses or telephone numbers on paper unless it slips your mind and fall into the hands of your wife. Always delete all history of calls on your phone. The same thing applies when you are looking for hotels online. Never forget to delete your browser’s history.
These tips should help you avoid being caught by your wife. Remember that flings easily come and go, but it is always your faithful wife who will stick with you in the end. Never run the risk of ending your marriage because your wife is precious. Do not compromise little details of your infidelity. An unknowing wife is always a happy and contented wife.