“I have a new mantra, which I chant softly to myself: “Oh my God Oh My God Oh My God.” – Suzzanne Finnamore, Split: A Memoir of Divorce
Stow away your habit of putting every receipt in your pocket after every purchase especially if you paid for the meals or hotel rooms and bought your mistress a gift. If this affair is really important to you, then don’t leave any trace or proof you’ve been out with your fancy woman. Frisking your car as well can keep your heart jumping out of your chest when your wife asks to whom is the hairbrush she sat on at the passenger seat belongs. Moreover, it is pretty clever to buy the same things for both your wife and your mistress – same lipstick and same perfume. You just don’t know how this will help you a lot along the way.
Keep everything under your control
Password-protect your phone, online credit card purchases, emails, computer, bank account, online shopping sites, and even social networking sites. It would be best to have different passwords for different accounts and never ever tell them to your wife (just remember all of them and don’t dare writing them down) or else, you’re a dead meat.
Two accounts for two loves
Phone and credit card bills are an excellent source of information for eager eyes. However, handling this issue is a piece of cake — A second phone and credit card with different billing addresses will do the trick plus dodging any instance of your wife accidental reading your text messages or answering your ladylove’s call. What a charlatan.
Shop at the other side of the town
Women – They love, love shopping. If you are not staggeringly stupid (because you are cheating and that makes you basically stupid), you’ll take your mistress shopping somewhere nobody recognizes either of you. Unless you married a recluse, she has friends. Her pals have the utmost loyalty to your legal partner that no amount of beseeching or bargaining can crack. Run into them while you are out with your lady love is a guarantee you are in a deep shit with just one press of a “send” button.
When cheating, you must learn how to dot the I’s and cross the T’s. Don’t get too mopped up on the elation of your extramarital romance and fail to bring to mind the necessary safeguards to prevent getting caught. Also, think about what you are getting yourself into before you stray away from your marriage. If you’ve been carried away by how watchful and cautious this article is encouraging you to be, you’re mistaken. Women pay so much attention to little details and if you’ve been missing that point, you’ve just paved your way as well of revealing your dirty secret. Just because she seems like she’s not sticking her nose to your business does not mean she isn’t – she wants you to believe that she trusts you.
A cheating husband gets caught 90% of the time and the relationship they have been trying to score from havoc almost invariably comes smashing down even with taking all the precautionary measures. Infidelity is still a life-altering pursuit, no matter how you justify it. Maybe the best belt and brace of all is not to cheat. Face the reality about your current relationship with your wife and have the fortitude to make those challenging decisions that may involve infusing some spice into your relationship and working it out harder. Hence, maybe your wife feels the same way too, so it’s time to move on and leave your partner and family. This could be the nimblest way for you to unearth happiness and gives a new relationship a test. Nevertheless, a straightforward talk is a tough work but it is a lot easier than cheating.