Men cheat for a variety of reasons. One is dissatisfaction with their married sex life. They get bored by the monotony of sex with their wives; over the years they got tired of the same routines that used to be part of their early passionate love-making. Everything about their sex life has simply gone predictable and mechanical. Another reason is the influence of society; men are expected to live up to a macho image. Faithful and devoted husbands are usually picked on and sneered at by their peers. Marital fidelity when practiced by men is perceived as a sign of lameness. Still another, men, as they say, is just instinctively polygamous; they simply can’t resist the temptation of a sexy officemate or a charming neighbor.
Nowadays, men can be very creative and cunning when it comes to cheating on their wife. In the past, cheating was limited to secretly slipping out to a bar looking for prospective one-night stands or hitting on a seductive work mate whose only fault was being overly gullible. These traditional methods of cheating have now been replaced in this internet age.
Some men are cybersex junkies
With the use of computer peripherals like webcams and microphones, men can engage in cybersex. It is a much more convenient way of obtaining a sex partner. They simply have to visit a cybersex site which generally demands pay or even look for cybersex partners for free in public chat rooms. They can do so while their wives are out of the grocer’s store, chit chatting with their neighbor’s wife, or even busy doing a chore somewhere around the house. It’s a different kind of sex, having no physical contact involved, but the experience is the same as having actual sex. Participants guide each other in achieving orgasm through stimulating talk and with the aid of sex toys such as dildos and vibrators.
Other men are dating freaks
The internet age has witnessed the steady increase of dating sites and sex sites. Cheating men find these an ideal option because it is a breeze looking for sex partners that are into the same kind of play in bed. They can simply read through the site’s database of members’ profiles: their personal info and contact details. From there, they can set a meet-up somewhere which usually leads to casual sex. This is a much more practical way of looking for a sex partner than taking a chance at pre-arranged dates with an accomplice friend. One is never guaranteed compatibility in these blind shots.
As contrasted to cybersex encounters, actually dating can be more risky because men have to devise excuses for being out. It should be noted that most wives have very good intuition at sniffing fishy business. Men must take extra precautions like making sure his browser’s history is cleared and not looking suspiciously propped up when going out. But considering the sexual pleasure from a well-suited partner, this method of cheating is ideal for many.
Many men are hooked to porn
Pornographic materials especially when enjoyed in secret are considered cheating, well not physically, but on a different level. It is cheating because a man fantasizes a woman that is not his wife. It is essentially a form of unfaithfulness and betrayal. Porn is considered to be the most widespread form of cheating especially with the advent of the internet. Porn sites have gone up to the status of a big-time moneymaking industry.
It is very easy to access porn sites. In fact even the simplest act of typing in a seemingly innocent keyword can sometimes lead you to a site offering naked and orgasmic photos of women and videos of people engaged in delirious sex. Men can get so turned on by this content that they most often act on their wakened desires through masturbation. Some would even go as far as looking for another woman for release.
Whether traditional or novel, all forms and variants of cheating are essentially the same. They are all infidelity to one’s spouse. They should not be an option for men who have seemingly perfect wives. Successful marriages take time and effort. Before you even think about your next promiscuous sexcapade, exhaust possible means to revive the passion in your relationship. Talk to your wife to do naughty things which you have never tried. Look for variety in your foreplay. Experiment.
Forget about the macho image. All men are not the same. Do not put what people say above your beliefs or your priorities. Peer pressure will always be there but it takes a real man to be able to say no. Being picked on does nothing to a man with principles.